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mr jalsan kirjoitti:Minun on tehnyt mieleni joskus puristella tuntematonta, herkullista peppua. Helposti tosin hallittavissa oleva mieliteko,
mutta näin on käynyt. Enkä kyllä toteuta muutenkaan kaikkia impulssejani. Ihan samoin kun lapset lelukaupassa:
tekee mieli, mutta koskeminen on kielletty.
Sen sijaan seksistä: kahden sopimus. Eri olosuhteissa ja henkilöiden kanssa jotkut asiat ovat luontevampia kuin toiset.
Jokunen on sitä mieltä, että suu- ja peppuseksi ovat homojen hommaa. jne Sen sijaan edelleen kuulee miehistä,
jotka eivät välitä tyydyttää naistaan. Mitenkään. Mistähän silloin on kyse?
Kahden sopimus varsinkin juutalaisuudessa, mikä muutti maailman
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Judaism_and_sexuality(- -)
Maimonides discusses this dichotomy explicitly:
"A man's wife is permitted to him. Therefore a man may do whatever he desires with his wife. He may engage in relations whenever
he desires, kiss any organ he desires, engage in vaginal or other intercourse or engage in physical intimacy without relations, provided
he does not release seed in vain. Nevertheless, it is pious conduct for a person not to act frivolously concerning such matters and to sanctify himself at the time of relations, as explained in Hilchot Deot. He should not depart from the ordinary pattern of the world.
For this act was [given to us] solely for the sake of procreation...
... Our Sages do not derive satisfaction from a person who engages in sexual relations excessively and frequents his wife like a rooster. This reflects a very blemished [character]; it is the way underdeveloped people conduct themselves. Instead, everyone who minimizes
his sexual conduct is praiseworthy, provided he does not neglect his conjugal duties, without the consent of his wife"
—Mishneh Torah, Issurei Biah, 21:9,11
The basic Jewish positive attitude towards sex and sexuality within marriage is especially opposed to Western Christianity,
which does not view the matter much in favor, due to a belief that sex has been contaminated by original sin.
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